Section 8. Forbidding Assistance Without Request
This section is about how to focus on your goals and develop your independence, not spending time and energy on help that is not needed or valued. This section is devoted to commandments that reveal the importance of independence, establishing boundaries, and focusing on your own goals.
- Value your worth:
● Do not help anyone without request. Your time and energy are valuable. Use them to achieve your goals, not to solve other people’s problems.
● Remember: to each their own. Every person has their own path. Do not interfere in other people’s affairs unless you are asked. - Respect personal boundaries:
● Do not help without request, this may violate the personal boundaries of other people. Respect the space and decisions of others, even if you want to help them.
● Do not help without request, this is perceived as interference and may suppress the independence of other people.

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